It's sensible stuff. Show respect. An erogenous zone (érōs 'love, desire' and -gen; 'generating desire') is an area of the body whose appropriate stimulation can cause or increase a person's sexual arousal if there is a corresponding desire. Stimulation of these areas without a corresponding desire or inappropriate stimulation can cause negative feelings, including pain. The receptivity of certain areas varies depending on the individual and can even change due to emotions. However, the areas of the body that are most likely to be receptive can be clearly identified. In women, the mons veneris with the labia majora and labia minora, the clitoris (as the 'C-spot'), in the vaginal vestibule in particular the area of the urethral opening (as the 'U-spot'), in the vagina in particular the area in the front wall of the vagina near the upper urethra, called the Gräfenberg zone or 'G-spot', the area in the vaginal vault near the cervix - the 'A-spot' - and the cervix itself. Stimulate the clitoris during sex. We don't have to explain to women that it's usually easier for them to orgasm if they pay attention to their clitoris during sex. You have the opportunity to caress your clitoris yourself with one hand. However, your partner can of course also do this.