All your dreamin'. At dawn we wake up naked in your bed. It is key that you communicate what you like and what you don't like. It is also key: During the meeting, you should always pay attention to how she reacts. Pay attention to her body language, her breathing and the sounds she makes. If you notice that she doesn't like something or is uncomfortable, you should respond by slowing down or changing the activity. If, on the other hand, she reacts very positively, you can see this as confirmation that you are on the right track.